Being a jeans person, I love wearing white pairs in the summer. I must be an outlier because I have heard these things from some clients: "I love white jeans on other people, but I could never wear them." The reasons are almost usually the same. They're afraid...
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Breaking News: Local Woman Discovers She Cannot Build a Wardrobe Entirely Out of Aspirations
I was short on time this week, so rather than skip a post altogether, I decided to have a little fun. The following is a completely fictional news report. Any resemblance to actual people is purely coincidental. Unless, of course, you've ever purchased a dress for a...
WHY LETTING GO FEELS SO HARD WHEN YOU DON’T KNOW WHERE YOU’RE GOING: AND WHAT YOUR CLOSET CAN TEACH YOU ABOUT CLARITY, DIRECTION, AND RELEASE
Last week, I was talking with a client about her closet, specifically, why she was still holding onto clothes she hadn’t worn in years and didn’t even particularly like. She wasn’t attached to them emotionally.She wasn’t convinced they were flattering.She wasn’t...
MIDLIFE, AGENCY, AND THE REFUSAL TO DISAPPEAR: MY WORD OF THE YEAR FOR 2026
I hope you had a wonderful holiday and a good start to the New Year. In addition to it being a new year, today (January 5th) is also my birthday. I turn 52. What surprises me most is that it doesn’t feel like a milestone that needs explaining, softening, or reframing....
HAPPY HOLIDAYS: SEE YOU IN THE NEW YEAR
As the year winds down, I want to say thank you. Thank you for reading, sharing, responding, and thinking alongside me this year. Thank you for the emails, comments, conversations, and moments of recognition where someone said, “Yes—that’s exactly it.” Those moments...
I’VE READ A LOT OF HOLIDAY STYLE ADVICE. MOST OF IT ASSUMES TOO MUCH
I’ve read a lot of holiday style advice over the years, and most of it assumes you’re excited, well-rested, and attending events you actually want to be at. It assumes you’re looking forward to dressing up. That you have energy. That you’re feeling festive in a way...
CLOUD DANCER: PANTONE’S COLOR OF THE YEAR AND THE AUDACITY OF CALLING WHITE A COLOR
Every December, Pantone emerges from its mystical forest (or committee room—same vibe) to deliver its Color of the Year, a shade meant to capture the collective emotional state of humanity. Something inspiring, resonant, zeitgeisty. This year, they gave us…Cloud...
GIFTS THAT ELEVATE THE EVERYDAY: SMALL LUXURIES THAT TURN ROUTINES INTO RITUALS
Some gifts aren’t about extravagance. They’re about refinement. They’re about taking the small, repetitive moments of daily life and giving them just enough polish, pleasure, or beauty that they feel intentional rather than autopilot. These are the gifts for women who...
THE CHEAP MISTAKE MYTH: WHY WOMEN BUY LOW-RISK CLOTHES THAT COST THEM MORE
If I had a dollar for every time a woman said,“Well… it was on sale,”I could fund an entire designer wardrobe. This line shows up time and time again. Women don’t buy cheap clothes because they don’t care about quality or looking stylish. They buy them because a cheap...
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU REALLY DO NEED A WARDROBE OVERHAUL: BECAUSE SOMETIMES IT’S NOT A PHASE— IT’S A PIVOT
There are moments when “ closet editing” isn’t enough, where your clothes don’t just feel off, they feel like they belong to someone else entirely. You wonder how it is possible that what worked suddenly doesn’t. Maybe your body has changed, your career has evolved,...















